Identity Crisis

Hey gorgeous! It's  good to have you back, last month was hectic but we remain grateful to God for the gift of life... 

I'm honestly very happy you're here with me, basically cause most people are occupied with school or work. 

Bring alive that child ...

Whenever I converse with a person, I pray to encounter the child within. 

In a child is originality, hope, sincere emotions 

Growth happens naturally with a thousand surrounding factors in play. 

We're faced with pressures from family, friends and society, emotional triggers,personal challenges, academic tasks, hormonal sensations and responses as well.

Each  makes or breaks identity... 

Once toxicity sets in, identity blurs.

 You're now more awaken to your weaknesses, past mistakes and a disabling fear.

 Myopic now, barely recognizing your strengths, values, priorities, even yourself... You exist, empty! 

"It's never so deep", I'd say to myself whenever situations start to get under my skin, yes, if you don't control what you take in, who will? 

I mean, there already exists a lot of conflicts within a person's mind, please, spare yourself external toxicity whenever possible. 

We are emotional animals and the moment we fail to check emotions, we become plainly, animals (anumanu). 

I don't believe in demonizing criticism, correction or any feedbacks of a constructive nature, as a matter of fact it's all that makes us... 

Destructive criticism is the true demon,it kills hope and builds provocation.

 All here for the first time, it's certain we'd be lost, intimidated and messy sometimes.

 Unfortunately, we may confide in wrong personalities and we somehow become bitter over mild issues. 

Know this, 

People speak sometimes to correct, other times to express and many other times to harness another. 

Try to spot the difference and groom your energy right. 

I don't pray you're better than your neighbor, I pray you become your best!

Pressures of life are infinite and beyond control, the only thing you can do is control your responses. 

Growing into your self is never quick or easy, it's a journey for a life time... don't be too hard... 

"The master has failed more times than the servant has ever tried" 

Be intentional and work with sincere efforts. 

Occasionally, 

Sit down and write, 

Write things you once dreamt of, things you still dream of, things you'll always want...keep your thoughts productive 

Watch your paths, company, 

Seriously, nothing should stop you from dreaming! 

 If there's so much I must be, could I still just be me, the way I am" (We are one) 

to be me despite the heat of life 

to be me because it's all I know 

be you, cause who else will? 

 

Reiterate ;

"So Help Me God" . 

Our struggles are unique 

Our abilities as well 

I pray for purpose, 

For pure motives, 

I pray we live our dreams

 

I am Ollie 🦋. 

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